{"id":1252,"date":"2010-06-30T13:36:00","date_gmt":"2010-06-30T13:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/journal.electric-rocket.com\/?p=1252"},"modified":"2025-04-24T17:41:24","modified_gmt":"2025-04-24T17:41:24","slug":"book-log-the-lonely-polygamist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/journal.electric-rocket.com\/?p=1252","title":{"rendered":"Book Log &#8211; The Lonely Polygamist"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>The Lonely Polygamist: A Novel<\/i> by Brady Udall<\/p>\n<p>To cleanse the palate of the last horrible book log entry, I turn to my favorite book I&#8217;ve read this year, <i>The Lonely Polygamist<\/i>.  This is the story of a man, his four wives, his 28 children, and a few others.  The book is very well written, with rich and well rendered characters.  It is funny, touching, and tragic.  A very believable portrait of a plural family emerges with all the potential and inherent flaws presented engagingly and sympathetically, but not through rose-colored glasses.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve mentioned before (in my log on <i><a href=\"http:\/\/electricrocket.livejournal.com\/123609.html\">The Moon Is a Harsh Mistress<\/a><\/i>) that I have a fascination with alternative marital contracts<sup>1<\/sup>.  But mathematically, I can&#8217;t see polygamy as feasible in a society without corresponding polyamory.  The math just doesn&#8217;t work out, which of course leads to tragedy in the case of sons of polygamists<sup>2<\/sup>.  The Line Marriage proposed in <i>Moon<\/i> still seems like the strongest alternative marital contract I&#8217;ve heard of.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t remember how this book ended up on my Amazon Wish List, but I&#8217;m awfully glad it did.<\/p>\n<p>_______________<br \/>\n<font size=\"-2\"><sup>1<\/sup> And like in my <i>Moon<\/i> book log, I&#8217;ll note that my fascination is purely academic, implying no dissatisfaction with my plain vanilla marriage.  Vanilla is my favorite flavor.<br \/>\n<sup>2<\/sup> There was a good essay about cast-out sons of polygamists called <b>The Lost Boys<\/b> that I read a long while back in a <i>Best American<\/i> collection.<\/font><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Lonely Polygamist: A Novel by Brady Udall To cleanse the palate of the last horrible book log entry, I turn to my favorite book I&#8217;ve read this year, The Lonely Polygamist. This is the story of a man, his &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/journal.electric-rocket.com\/?p=1252\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[481,513],"tags":[494,457],"class_list":["post-1252","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-book-log","category-books","tag-book-log-2","tag-book-log-2010"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/journal.electric-rocket.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1252","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/journal.electric-rocket.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/journal.electric-rocket.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/journal.electric-rocket.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/journal.electric-rocket.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1252"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/journal.electric-rocket.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1252\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3344,"href":"https:\/\/journal.electric-rocket.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1252\/revisions\/3344"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/journal.electric-rocket.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1252"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/journal.electric-rocket.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1252"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/journal.electric-rocket.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1252"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}