3.5 year olds… are assertive. It’s important for their development as confident individuals… but…
But once in a great while his contrary attitude wears on my last nerve.
Does everything have to be such an ordeal? Can we not walk a block home from the pool without making a big production number out of it? Literally? Because he was actually trying to put on a 30 minute show? That was largely the ABC song over and over? On the neighbor’s driveway?
Ordinarily, it’s very charming. Whimsically creative, even. But after two straight hours of indecisiveness, lollygagging, tantrums, whining and general annoyingness that’s really just a continuation of this mood he’s been in this week, I’m just about done.
So now we’re finally home, and finally eating dinner at 9:15pm.
Anyway. It was a good first week at work. My boss is a great guy, and a lot of the other folks seem very friendly. And I’m told I’ll never have to pay for a DVD burner or high-density hard drive again, as there are always plenty of extra samples lying around.
Ahhh. Okay. I’ve vented. I’ve relaxed. Now I’m refreshed, and ready to read The Cat in the Hat.
The Cat in the Hat. Now he was assertive.
What part of town is your new office in? I seem to remember it being nearby where I work.
You turn right on Sugarloaf Parkway off 316, and it’s the first drive on the right.
You know, you are several feet taller than he is. And you have the cash and the car keys.
You’d think that would impress him, but it simply doesn’t.
Me: I am the daddy. I am big, I have money, I have car keys, and therefore, I am in charge.
Him: No, I’m in charge.
Is it too late to rule by fear?
At least it sounds like you were able to stay calm….
I got the snake-eye from several people in McDonald’s today when the fact that my kids kept eating french fries off the floor got on MY last nerve and I actually yelled (albeit louder than an inside voice would normally allow) at them in the restaurant.
They also thought they were putting on a performance for others, b/c the more laughs and funny looks they got for eating said contaminated fries, the more they did it, with Jake even saying ,”Ta-da!!!” after a few…
Boy, I can’t wait to see what 3.5 y/o holds for mine!
Boy, I can’t wait to see what 3.5 y/o holds for mine!
I posted a while back about my evening taking care of two 3.5 y/olds, and my final conclusion was that my heart went out to parents of twins. It was exhausting. Enjoyable, but exhausting. They just… feed off each other, so that the whole was more than the sum of the parts.
But you know that, crazy McDonald’s mom. The trouble with being an actor is that you naturally breed performers, I think.
Presumably you’re still stronger than he is. Pick him up and put him where you want him to be. He won’t like it, but he doesn’t have to.